Philemon 1:20 Relationships

Philemon 1:20 (KJV)
Yea, brother, let me have joy of thee in the Lord: refresh my bowels in the Lord.

Given the strong pastoral nature of the little letter to Philemon, I believe it is possible to draw out all sorts of applications concerning a pastor’s relationship with another pastor. This would be especially true of the relationship concerning a church member who has left one ministry and finds his way to another of like faith and practice. 

  • Apostle Paul appears as Pastor number one
  • Philemon appears in my application as Pastor number two
  • Onesimus appears as the wayward church member

Pastor number one requests Pastor number two, “let me have joy of thee in the Lord.” 
He is sending the member back home. He wants to know that Pastor two will receive the member back graciously. Regardless of what damage he has previously done, Pastor one is returning him in better condition than he was when he received him. 

Pastor number one then requests, “refresh my bowels in the Lord.”
He lets Pastor two know that whatever grace he shows to the member will be a grace received from Pastor one. 

The inner connectivity of these ministries is apparent. They are obviously separate and independent ministries. They are not, however, isolated from one another. One ministry does impact to some degree the other ministry. We do not live in our own universe. Each ministry, if it is of the Lord, is also in the Lord. 

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Marvin McKenzie was born in the Pacific Northwest and became a Christian at the age of eighteen. He has been in the Baptist ministry for thirty years and has planted and pastored churches in Washington and Oregon. Besides his pastoral ministry, Marvin has been actively involved in training men for the Baptist ministry. He has conducted local church Bible Institutes in those churches he has pastored, from which a number of men have entered the ministry. Marvin also served as: Vice President of the Western States Baptist Bible Fellowship, The Board of Directors of Pacific Coast Baptist Bible College in San Dimas, CA, Dean of men at Pacific Coast Baptist Bible College in San Dimas, Executive Vice President of Pacific Coast Baptist Bible College in San Dimas, CA and Executive Vice President of Heartland Baptist Bible College in Oklahoma City, OK. Marvin is married to Anita. They have two sons, Bohannan and Caleb. Both are Baptist pastors in Washington State. Marvin enjoys camping, fishing and horses.

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